we all have our own journey and setbacks, you only see the victories in others life because that's what most people will talk about, too many proud souls out there trying to live up to a society standard that was set for them and it's a lie, God gave us all unique gifts that this world distracts us from activating, step away from the world humble yourself before the Lord and give Him your life, ALL OF IT!!! once you do that then He will start moving in ways that will awaken your purpose and once that happens you begin to walk in faith and that means you will have peace and feel what true love actually feels like, you won't envy anyone, you will celebrate them sincerely, you will love and pray for your enemies and you will begin to hate sin, God is so good! let Him in, surrendered to Jesus

You are not wrong. Also, There are men who simply let the weaker ones run their mouths and talk behind their backs knowing when they enter the room, everyone is quite and friendly for a reason.