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Why do people always have to be so judgemental people on food stamps get it once a month how many times a month do you get it and no I don't get food stamps and if anyone wonders why I put that in because I bet when I said what I said the first thing you thought was she's on F.S. but I'm not everyone has to be judgemental well why don't you judge yourself one time no one can can show kindness or compassion people have fell on hard times factories and Mills or closing a lot of things happen in life that they are put in that position and one day it could happen to you don't say it won't happen because you never know what can happen and yes I can judge someone who abuses or kill a child or anyone for that matter there's a lot of difference between the two I'm not judging someone about what they have in there grocery cart or how they pay for it dang people have a heart and some compassion 🙏🌸🙏🌸🙏🌸🙏🌸🙏🌸

this year is my #1st thanksgiving without my dad and it hurts l knew it was gonna be hard but this really sucks l wish l had just #1 more hi, or hear #1 more l love U baby girl these last few months have consumed me and I'm not ready to mourn him yet l have alot of regrets an the what ifs cuz maybe just maybe if l would've gotten there could l have saved him or was he scared l beat myself everyday with those questions but this thanksgiving I'm gonna remember my daddy for being the best father he could be an the wonderful childhood he gave me l will always be thankful and greatful for giving me life so to all U out there this thanksgiving make sure to tell the ones U love just how much they mean to U an to all the moms an dads out there thank U and HAPPY THANKSGIVING!! #missing my dad

his child is a drug addict that murdered his mother and father. they refused to support him. they tried many many times putting them in rehab but it never stuck. as long as you didn't want to go to rehab then he had to figure it out on his own. and that's the way it should be. it's called tough love and it's not easy they've had them in and out of rehab since he was 15 years old. not that his kids didn't like them or whatever. but the one had a lot of anger and substance abuse. but all in all this is a sad sad day for all of us. they will be messed. their children have to live with the fact that their brother killed their parents.

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My struggle is ongoing. I struggle with a broken family who I love and wish could be repaired, thing is the system broke us up somewhat. I also played a part in it by being selfish and jealous so long ago. I am not totally to blame although I made many a mistakes by being a teenage parent, making bad relationship choices and although I tried to be a good parent (no drinking or drugs) I guess I fell short because some of my children dont even speak to me. How honest is that? It's a struggle to be at a job where I will never advance due to friends promoting friends but here I must stay because I am not college educated (on paper) and its the best place for me because I am 1/2 of a team who is raising a toddler because his mother is incapable due to illness as she is a family member who I love so there is no option. I am in my late 50's and after taking a class and becoming a counselor some opportunities started to open up for me professionally to better myself financially and professionally but its off the table because I'm the part of the team who is expendable due to someone having to sacrifice. Since I am the poorer of the 2 its me. However, the good people in my life say I saved a life, I say this child saved mine. I found out that I have the true capacity to love and change. Although I have on-going battles to try and keep this child in our lives as it is best for him I realize that I have the strength to tolerate abuse from co-workers, court systems, family members and anything or anyone else if it allows him to remain in our little circle where he is safe, well cared for and loved. Most times I feel beat down, sad, ashamed and like I am nothing but I am lucky to have a few good people in my life who believe in me and lift me up and make me realize that I am a helper, I do good works for my community, I try and be honest as you can see by this post and that I want better for myself and others. #TheStruggleIsRea

I’m saddened to see how far people have declined in their comments of other people. Please remember that your comments are seen by the intended audience and their family and friends. In that light, please be humble and kind and avoid saying hateful things. Go to Church and pray instead.

I've lost a parent, I've lost a family, I've lost a child, I've lost friends, I've lost a house, I've lost a car, I've lost a job, I've lost love, Bt I never loss hope,.I've just embraced it, realized,.I got to let go cuz God ain't letting me go and it feels right because the colder it get, the warmer I get!!.til now,um Burnin up!!.I know, who the real son is!!. #Me ⚡️🪽

WOW, I seem to have pissed off alot of people with some comments I made concerning Erika Kirk. Let me start by saying, Yes, we all handle/process grief differently, each of us. Now, how many of you have been thru what she is going thru, by that I mean how many of you are widows/widowers? I am a widow!!! How many of you have lost a loved one to gun violence, specifically? Again, I have. Since not one of you thought to look me up in Newsbreak, I'll clue y'all, I'm the author of Just another child of God and in that post is a testimonial, I'm a victim of senseless gun violence about 40 yrs ago. I my new found friends am now going to get real, my 1st husband was gunned down in his truck back in the 80's so yeah, I know EXACTLY HOW SHE SHOULD BE FEELING, RAGE AND ANGER!!! How dare someone take him. My husband's has NEVER BEEN SOLVED!!! SO I ask, who the hell are you to assume I'm being judgemental? No, I'm being real. God only took my rage abt the time I almost had a heart attack. I was 21!!!! I lost our son 3 mos later. Now I don't care how many of you will be shocked. Erika Kirk knows who killed her husband and one thing about widows/widowers, God takes care of us, but did any of you even stop to think before you attacked me? I forgive each one of you, you didn't know I share that with her. You can't possibly know unless you walk in that person's shoes and I have and did and came out a lot stronger than most, but after all, I'm just another child of God. Judgement is for the Father, so why did some of you ask me about being judgemental when in next breath you judged me? Very Christian of you all. I'm not being judgemental if her, I'm being real and I'm not the only one. Some of you may want to apologize for this, that's fine, I'll tell ya now, again I forgive each of you. It takes a better person to admit forgiveness, which she did on national television. I'm sorry for pissing you off, but not what I said. Happy Holidays to each of you.

I wish I could spend Christmas with someone this year. I’m all alone.

We as human's should all treat one another with respect, kindness and compassion and most of all love and forgiveness no matter the color or race to make this life one that we shall never forget