WOW, I seem to have pissed off alot of people with some comments I made concerning Erika Kirk. Let me start by saying, Yes, we all handle/process grief differently, each of us. Now, how many of you have been thru what she is going thru, by that I mean how many of you are widows/widowers? I am a widow!!! How many of you have lost a loved one to gun violence, specifically? Again, I have. Since not one of you thought to look me up in Newsbreak, I'll clue y'all, I'm the author of Just another child of God and in that post is a testimonial, I'm a victim of senseless gun violence about 40 yrs ago. I my new found friends am now going to get real, my 1st husband was gunned down in his truck back in the 80's so yeah, I know EXACTLY HOW SHE SHOULD BE FEELING, RAGE AND ANGER!!! How dare someone take him. My husband's has NEVER BEEN SOLVED!!! SO I ask, who the hell are you to assume I'm being judgemental? No, I'm being real. God only took my rage abt the time I almost had a heart attack. I was 21!!!! I lost our son 3 mos later. Now I don't care how many of you will be shocked. Erika Kirk knows who killed her husband and one thing about widows/widowers, God takes care of us, but did any of you even stop to think before you attacked me? I forgive each one of you, you didn't know I share that with her. You can't possibly know unless you walk in that person's shoes and I have and did and came out a lot stronger than most, but after all, I'm just another child of God. Judgement is for the Father, so why did some of you ask me about being judgemental when in next breath you judged me? Very Christian of you all. I'm not being judgemental if her, I'm being real and I'm not the only one. Some of you may want to apologize for this, that's fine, I'll tell ya now, again I forgive each of you. It takes a better person to admit forgiveness, which she did on national television. I'm sorry for pissing you off, but not what I said. Happy Holidays to each of you.