The more blind dates I go on, the more I understand why most girls are single
Dating is a long road. From last year to now, I have met many women, many of whom are excellent. It is probably because I have met enough people that I find that I am also very picky. If the distance is not suitable, I will reject it early to avoid the two people from seeing each other rarely in the future because of the distance. Yes, long-distance relationships are not even for dogs!
At the same time, blind dating is also a way to see yourself in the eyes of others. They reject because they don’t have eye contact, because of family background, because it is not a famous school, because the city house is not a school district house, because of table manners, because they are not familiar with the dating route when they meet for the first time, because they don’t prepare gifts for the girl for the first time, because they touch her head when they meet for the first time, because the financial strength does not meet the girl’s expectations... There are so many things to count.
But seeing that different girls surprisingly have the same mate selection standards also understands why they are single.
Slowly, when I began to re-examine myself and tried to change based on these reasons for being rejected, I found it was futile. No matter how I changed, I couldn’t meet the expectations of most girls, so I chose to be myself. Love is a process of screening, not a process of changing myself to please others.
I look like this, I have this family background, I am this kind of person, and I have this kind of personality. I don’t need all of you girls to approve of me, because I have already been the pride of my parents.
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