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John Spencer Ellis

How can you spot a pathological liar? Ever wondered if someone’s lies go beyond the occasional white fib? Let’s dive into the world of pathological lying – a behavior that’s more than just dishonesty. Clinically, pathological lying (also known as pseudologia fantastica or mythomania) is defined as a persistent, pervasive, and often compulsive pattern of excessive lying that causes significant impairment in social, occupational, or other areas of life. It leads to marked distress, poses risks to oneself or others, and lasts longer than six months. Unlike everyday lies told for gain or to avoid trouble, these are habitual, elaborate falsehoods without clear motive – the liar might even believe them or mix truth with fantasy. It’s not a standalone diagnosis in the DSM-5 but often links to personality disorders like narcissism or antisocial traits. Experts note it’s disproportionate to any benefit, manifesting over years. Spot it in action? Here are two everyday examples: 1 The Chronic Storyteller at Work: Imagine a colleague who constantly fabricates grand tales about their weekend adventures – claiming they partied with celebrities or climbed mountains – even when no one’s asking. These lies pile up, erode trust, and isolate them, but they can’t stop, despite the fallout. 2 The Family Fabricator: Think of a relative who invents health crises or dramatic family secrets to garner sympathy and attention. They might say they’re battling a rare illness (when healthy) or accuse others falsely, creating chaos without remorse or reason. If this sounds familiar, set boundaries and encourage professional help – therapy can uncover roots like low self-esteem. Knowledge is power! #MentalHealthAwareness #PathologicalLying #TruthMatters #itsnotyou #malignantnarcissistproblems

John Spencer Ellis

Greetings. As you know, for more than 33 years, I have been educating the public on every aspect of personal development. Personally, professionally, physically, emotionally, mentally, etc. It is absolutely critical that you are aware of the incredible detriment that a malignant narcissist can cause in your life. Remember: Simply because you are a good person, that does not mean others are as well.  Traits and Signs of Malignant Narcissism Malignant narcissism blends narcissistic personality disorder with antisocial, sadistic, and paranoid elements, resulting in destructive actions. Here’s a concise list of core traits from psychological sources: • Grandiosity: Exaggerated superiority; brags about accomplishments, demands special privileges. • Lack of empathy: Ignores or dismisses others’ emotions, leading to neglect or blame-shifting. • Manipulation: Employs lies, charm, or force to exploit people remorselessly for self-gain. • Sadism: Enjoys inflicting emotional, verbal, or physical pain on others. • Aggression: Reacts explosively to insults, harbors grudges, plots vengeful acts. • Paranoia: Suspicious mindset; imagines conspiracies, responds defensively. • Entitlement: Craves admiration and power; envies others while assuming envy in return. • Antisocial behavior: Lies habitually, flouts rules, lacks guilt or conscience. • Fantasies: Fixated on visions of ultimate success, beauty, or dominance. • Criticism intolerance: Erupts in anger or counterattacks when challenged. • Black-and-white thinking: Sees everything in absolutes, no middle ground. • Status obsession: Preoccupied with appearance, social rank, and superficial acclaim. • Initial charm: Projects confidence to lure others, hiding toxic nature. These traits often create toxic relationships and environments. Seek professional help for diagnosis or coping strategies. Share your horror story and help others. By the way, if a narcissist reads this, they will either think it doesn’t apply to them

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