8 Mindsets That Make Life Increasingly Effortless 1. I allow myself to rest without any guilt. 2. I let go of anyone who has a negative influence on me. 3. I do not have to live up to others' expectations. 4. I have nothing to prove to you. 5. I am far stronger—and far more beautiful—than I perceive myself to be. 6. I am inherently valuable, so I do not fear losing anything. 7. I naturally attract good fortune. 8. I am destined to live a free and joyful life.