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Michael Tovornik

From Control to Surrender Anxiety often grows out of our desire to control what we cannot. We replay conversations, plan out every possible outcome, and grasp for certainty. But the more we try to hold everything together, the more anxious we feel. Control promises relief but delivers exhaustion. Surrender is the opposite. It is not giving up. It is giving over. Proverbs tells us to trust in the Lord with all our hearts, not lean on our own understanding, and submit to Him so that He makes the path clear (Proverbs 3:5–6). The psalmist reminds us that God bears our burdens daily (Psalm 68:19). Every morning, every situation, He is strong enough to carry what weighs us down. Peter echoes this truth, calling us to humility and inviting us to cast our cares on God because He truly cares for us (1 Peter 5:7). Control keeps us anxious. Surrender sets us free. Prayer: Lord, I confess that I often try to control what only You can handle. Teach me to surrender my cares to You in trust. Remind me that Your hands are stronger than mine and that You bear my burdens daily. Daily Challenge: Think of one situation you have been trying to control. Today, pray over it and verbally surrender it to God, saying: “Lord, I trust you. This belongs to You.”

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Father kills son with autism, 10, family dog and self in apparent murder-suicide in home where missing daughter, 20, was also found dead

A tragic murder-suicide unfolded in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma, where police say 58-year-old Rodney Shippy fatally shot his 10-year-old autistic son, Logan, and the family dog before turning the gun on himself. Authorities discovered the bodies Wednesday afternoon while conducting a welfare check after relatives reported Shippy’s daughter, Alyssa, missing. The 20-year-old’s body was later found inside the disheveled home, and investigators are working to determine her cause of death. The deaths mark the latest in a series of devastating losses for the Shippy family. In 2022, Rodney’s wife Lisa, 41, took her own life at the same residence. Just months later, Lisa’s mother was murdered by her husband in a separate incident nearby. Relatives said Rodney became increasingly isolated after his wife’s death, and the home had fallen into severe neglect. Public records show he was facing foreclosure on the property, owing $135,000 in unpaid mortgage debt. Loved ones described Logan as a “sweet, eager-to-learn boy” and Alyssa as “a bright light in this world.” A GoFundMe campaign has been launched to help cover their funeral expenses. #UnexpectedHistory #UnexpectedResults #Creepy

Father kills son with autism, 10, family dog and self in apparent murder-suicide in home where missing daughter, 20, was also found dead